This ONE mistake cost me...

"If someone invited you into their home - would you make a point to mention everywhere you saw dust in the corners? Would you think, "Well, if I don't point out the dust, they'll never learn to properly clean their home. I'm only trying to help them. They should thank me" Or would you just simply enjoy their company and leave criticism at the door? Imagine building up the courage to try something new and having random people coming up to you saying “You’re doing it all wrong. You need to do it my way instead.” It’s one thing to be guided by a teacher, people expect that - but fellow students?! The ballroom is already an uncomfortable environment for many people. They’re constantly worried that they’re not good enough, that they don't know enough moves, and that people aren’t enjoying dancing with them. Pointing out your partner’s mistakes is a recipe for disaster. It can make people feel stressed, annoyed, defeated….I’ve even had people give up dancing completely because they were so upset when another student presumed to correct them during class. It’s not pleasant, it's not helpful, and it’s not the way you get lots of people asking you to dance."